Psychotherapist & Counsellor in Dalston, East London
Psychosynthesis psychotherapy and counselling in Dalston and online, for people struggling with self-esteem, self-criticism, people pleasing, procrastination, feeling stuck, or questions of identity, meaning and purpose.
Matthew Gorner
UKCP | Dip.Psych | MA Psych
I work with adults experiencing low self-esteem, self-doubt, relationship difficulties, procrastination and questions of identity, meaning and direction.
My approach brings together psychosynthesis, psychodynamic and existential therapy with Internal Family Systems and other forms of parts work.
In-person therapy in Dalston and online.
Perhaps something in your life needs to change?
You may know that something isn’t working but find yourself repeating the same patterns.
Perhaps you are highly self-critical, struggle to feel good enough, procrastinate on things that matter to you, or find yourself working harder and harder until you burn out.
Or you may simply have reached a point where the life you have built no longer feels like the life you want to live.
Therapy can offer a space to understand what is happening beneath these patterns — and to discover parts of yourself that may have been pushed aside, unheard or undeveloped.
My Approach to Psychotherapy

My approach is grounded in psychosynthesis, a form of psychotherapy
that works not only with our difficulties and past experiences, but
also with our potential for growth and a deeper sense of who we are.
I also draw on psychodynamic and existential therapy, Internal Family
Systems (IFS) and other forms of parts work. This can help us understand
the different — and sometimes conflicting — parts of ourselves. One
part may want to change, for example, while another feels frightened,
critical or resistant.
Rather than seeing anxiety, procrastination, self-criticism or other
difficulties simply as problems to get rid of, we can become curious
about what these patterns may be protecting and what lies beneath them.
Therapy can help you develop a more compassionate relationship with these
different parts of yourself, while becoming less governed by old patterns
and expectations.
Over time, this can create more space for choice: to recognise what matters
to you, develop a stronger sense of yourself, and move towards a life that
feels more genuinely your own.
Issues I Can Help With
- Low self-esteem
- Confidence & self-doubt
- Inner critic
- People pleasing
- Procrastination & self-sabotage
- Imposter syndrome
- Meaning, identity & life direction
Taking the Next Step
Finding the right therapist is important. If you feel that my approach may be a good fit for you, you can book an initial session or contact me if you have any questions about working together.
I offer in-person psychotherapy and counselling in Dalston, East London, as well as online sessions.
